Thursday, February 4, 2010

8 Things Thursday - When you are bored

I have found that being off on medical leave and not being able to do much other than lie around on the couch, you can get bored. Very bored. As bored as a boring person in Boringville on National Bored Day.

Yep....that's how bored I am.

My 8 things are what can be done when you are bored beyond belief.

  1. You can peel off your acrylic nails by sliding a piece of plastic between the fake nail and real nail. I have peeled all but four in the past week.
  2. You can begin to have a hatred for the axe weilding turtle creature thing on Mario Galaxy that is preventing you from getting to the next level!!
  3. You can fall asleep while reading, regardless of how interesting the book is and then have the joy of waking up with the imprint of the edge of the book in your face and the page you were reading dribbled with drool. Good times.
  4. You can count the change in your change jar and then think of all the different ways you could spend the $206.85 that you have stashed in that jar.
  5. You can watch so much retro tv that you get to the point that you are wondering what Jack, Janet, Terry and Larry are planning to do today or you start relating to Blanche, Rose, Dorothy and Sophia.
  6. You can invent a new word. Mine is Frigtastic!
  7. You can become the greatest farmer or chef thru Farmville and Cafe World on Facebook.
  8. You can blink your eyes wildly for a minute and then close your eyes tightly. Voila, you have your own personal light show!

I hope your Thursday is not a boring one!

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Brilliance

Two of my favourite singers - Elton John and Lady Gaga performed a duet at this years Grammy's. It was BRILLIANT!

In case you missed it or want to relive it - here you go~

Monday, February 1, 2010

For Today.....Feb 3

Oops....I am 2 days late ;)

For Today.......

Outside My Window... there are two squirrels either fighting or having some nookie nookie. I can't really tell. I will watch for one of them to light up a cigarette ;)

I am thinking... of how nice it will be to get moving again and back in the working game. I am so bored lying down all the time!

I am thankful for... the many reminders I have to not sweat the small stuff.

From the kitchen... I am defrosting some chili I had prepared ahead of time. Yum!

I am wearing... my grey yoga suit. Very comfy.

I am creating... FINALLY!! I actually sat at my table and altered a mini album for Jonah! YAY ME!!

I am going... to keep creating as much as I can.

I am reading... Pieces of my Sisters Life. I just started it so I can't really comment yet!

I am hoping... that Jonah is not coming down with something.

I am hearing... the tv in the background - Breakfast Television.

Around the house... definately need to get some laundry done. But I am not allowed! Hee hee.

One of my favourite things... being a witness to true, unconditional love.

A Few Plans For The Rest Of The Week... Nothing exciting, just resting and maybe some more crafting!!

Here is a picture to share... Me on my birthday with my Princess Peach cake made by Rhonda! And yes, I am aware she wears a pink dress but Rhonda made it peach since I DON'T LIKE PINK!


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Saturday, January 30, 2010

36 Candles Today

Today I am celebrating my 36th birthday. I don't feel 36, yet my birth certificate says that I am. Interesting :)
I thought I would have a look to see what it was like on the day I was born.

Here are some tidbits:

My date of conception was on or about 9 May 1973 which was a Wednesday. I'm guessing that was a birthday gift to my Dad or a Mothers Day poke for my Mom! HAHAHA

I was born on a Wednesday under the astrological sign Aquarius.

My opposition sign is Leo - HA! That is Sean!

As of 1/30/2010 8:40:43 PM EST
I am 36 years old.
I am 432 months old.
I am 1,878 weeks old.
I am 13,149 days old.
I am 315,596 hours old.
I am 18,935,800 minutes old.
I am 1,136,148,043 seconds old.

The 36 candles on my cake produce 37 BTUs,or 9,324 calories of heat. You can boil 4.23 ounces of water with that many candles.

Your age is the equivalent of a dog that is 5.14637964774951 years old.

My fortune cookie for life reads: Anger begins with folly, and ends with regret.
I was born in the Chinese year of the Tiger.

My birth flower is CARNATION
My birthstone is Garnet --> Garnet is used as a power stone.
My birth tree is Cypress Tree--> The Faithfulness

Top songs of 1974:
The Way We Were by Barbra Streisand
Seasons In the Sun by Terry Jacks
The Streak by Ray Stevens
Having My Baby by Paul Anka
Kung Fu Fighting by Carl DouglasBilly,
Don't Be a Hero by Bo Donaldson & the Heywoods
Annie's Song by John Denver
The Loco-Motion by Grand Funk
TSOP (The Sound of Philadelphia) by MFSB with the Three Degrees
I Can Help by Billy Swan

Celebrities who share my birthday:
Khleo Thomas (1989)
Christian Bale (1974)
Brett Butler (1958)
Phil Collins (1951)
Steve Marriott (1947)
Marty Balin (1942)
Dick Cheney (1941)
Vanessa Redgrave (1937)
Boris Spassky (1937)
Tammy Grimes (1934)
Louis Rukeyser (1933)
Gene Hackman (1930)
Dorothy Malone (1925)
Dick Martin (1922)
Franklin D. Roosevelt (1882)

There you go.....some random facts!

Giveaway Winner!

I am taking a cake break to announce the giveaway winner! Yes, I did put the cake down ;)

And the winner is....................

CHEMGRL
Comment: My best birthday was the first one my husband and I had spent together as a couple(first year of our relationship). He bought me a film camera and lens because he knew I had an interest in photography. Poor guy opened a can of worms with that gift! LOL. I got into scrapbooking and digital photography a few years after that and haven't looked back.

Congratulations!
Please email me at ohara.c at rogers dot com and I will give you your code!

Friday, January 29, 2010

One Year Ago

I can't believe it has been one year since my beloved Uncle Ken left us. While time continues to pass, the memories live on.
I'll always remember that special smile and laugh,that caring heart and that warm embrace. I'll remember you being there Aunt Shirley and your family through good and bad times, no matter what. I'll always remember you Uncle Ken because there will never be another one to replace you in my heart.
I have always wondered about the stars in the sky. Maybe they are not just stars in the sky,but rather openings where loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
I love you Uncle Ken.

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Thursday, January 28, 2010

8 Things plus 92 :)

Saw this on my faboosh friend Lee's Blog and I had to join in on the fun!

1. How old will you be in five years? I will be 2 days away from my 41st birthday.

2. Who did you spend at least two hours with today? My Jonah
3. How tall are you? 5’6”

4. What do you look forward to most in the next six months? Being well, being lighter on the scale :)

5. What's the last movie you saw? Brothers - watched with Tricia. It was a good movie until the very end. A huge let down.

6. Who was the last person you called? Sean

7. Who was the last person to call you? Mom

8. What was the last text message you received? Jayne commenting on my facebook status :)

9. Who was the last person to leave you a voice mail? Not sure, I havent checked. But the light is blinking!

10. Do you prefer to call or text? Text/e-mail if it is a quick thing, but call if there is more to talk about!

11. What were you doing at 12 am last night? Reading blogs and trying to clear out my reader.

12. Are your parents married/separated/divorced? Married

13. When is the last time you saw your mom? Last week when she stayed with me after my surgery.

14. What colour are your eyes? Blue

15. What time did you wake up today? 5:45AM only because I heard Seans alarm.

16. What are you wearing right now? Jammies

17. What is your favourite Christmas song? O Holy Night

18. Where is your favourite place to be? Home with family.

19. Where is your least favourite place to be? Gynecologists stirrups!

20. Where would you go if you could go anywhere? Ireland

21. Where do you think you'll be in 10 years? Living in a different house with my husband and teenage son!

22. Do you tan or burn? I FRY!

23. What did you fear was going to get you at night as a child? Boogieman under the bed.

24. What was the last thing that really made you laugh? Something taboo that Sean said at the perfect moment.

25. How many TVs do you have in your house? 2

26. How big is your bed? Queen

27. Do you have a laptop or desktop computer? Both

28. Do you sleep with or without clothes on? Buck. I love jammies but can't sleep in them. I feel pinned down.

29. What colour are your sheets? Multi-colour

30. How many pillows do you sleep with? 4!

31. What is your favourite season? Autumn

32. What do you like about fall? The changing colours, the feel of the crisp breeze, the sunsets and sunshine. Love it.

33. What do you like about winter? Christmas, snow angels and building snowmen!

34. What do you like about the summer? The ourdoor play, the sunshine, longer days :)

35. What do you like about spring? New beginnings :)

36. How many states/provinces have you lived in? 1

37. What cities/towns have you lived in? Scarborough, Peterborough, Pickering, Ajax.

38. Do you prefer shoes, socks, or bare feet? Bare feet or socks if I need the comfort

39. Are you a social person? Yes!

40. What was the last thing you ate? Porridge!

41. What is your favourite restaurant? Keg

42. What is your favourite ice cream? Chocolate, Cookie dough, tiger tail.

43. What is your favourite dessert? Cheesecake

44. What is your favourite kind of soup? Homestyle Noodle

45. What kind of jelly do you like on your PB & J sandwich? Strawberry Rhubarb.

46. Do you like Chinese food? Yes!

47. Do you like coffee? Good Lord NO!!!!

48. How many glasses of water, a day, do you drink on average? I'm lucky if I get one in. Isn't that terrible??

49. What do you drink in the morning? TEA!!!

51. Do you sleep on a certain side of the bed? While lying down, looking at the ceiling, I'm on the right side.
52. Do you know how to play poker? I know how, but I suck at it.

53. Do you like to cuddle? Absolutely!!!

54. Have you ever been to Australia? No, but I hope to some day.

55. Do you have an addictive personality? I don't know.

56. Do you eat out or at home more often? At home.

58. Do you know anyone with the same birthday as you? Phil Collins from Genesis.

59. Do you want kids? I have my blessing Jonah.

60. Do you speak any other languages? Not fluently, but I can understand and speak a little french to Jonah.

61. Have you ever gotten stitches? Yes, many times.

62. Have you ever ridden in an ambulance? Yes, a few times.

63. Do you prefer an ocean or a pool? Pool to swim, Ocean for the sound.

64. Do you prefer a window seat or an aisle seat? Depends on what I am on.

65. Do you know how to drive stick? Not very good but if I had to in an emergency I would be ok.

66. What is your favourite thing to spend money on? Scrapbook supplies, gifts for others.

67. Do you wear any jewelry 24/7? Diamond earrings that Sean gave me.

68. What is your favourite TV show? Greys Anatomy.

69. Can you roll your tongue? No

70. Who is the funniest person you know? Michelle

71. Do you sleep with stuffed animals? No

72. What is the main ring tone on your phone? The one that came with the phone.

73. Do you still have clothes from when you were little? Yes

74. What red object is closest to you right now? Bean bag chair

75. Do you turn off the water while you brush your teeth? No but I should.

76. Do you sleep with your closet doors open or closed? Closed because otherwise I would get freaked out.

77. Would you rather be attacked by a big bear or a swarm of bees? Bear because the buzz of the bees would bother me. LOL.

78. Do you flirt a lot? Not a lot, but I do a little.

79. What do you dip a chicken nugget in? Plum sauce.

80. What is your favourite food? Roast Beef or steak.

81. Can you change the oil on a car? Nope, not even a clue.

82. Have you ever gotten a speeding ticket? Yes :)

83. Have you ever run out of gas? I have! Not fun.

84. What is your usual bedtime? Usually 11ish, but lately it has been much later.

85. What was the last book you read? Letter to my Daughter by Maya Angelou. It was a nice book.

86. Do you read the newspaper? when i can, yes.

87. Do you have any magazine subscriptions? Todays Parent and Scrapbooks Etc.

89. Do you watch soap operas? Not anymore

90. Do you dance in the car? Yes

91. What radio station did you last listen to? Virgin 99.9

92. Who is in the picture frame closest to you? My parents.

93. What was the last note you scribbled on a piece of paper? A quote I read on Sherry's Facebook status.

94. What is your favourite candle scent? Mulberry

95. What is your favourite board game? Monopoly

97. When was the last time you attended church? Sunday before my surgery.

98. Who was your favourite teacher in high school? No one in high school. Mr. Sweny in Grade 8.

99. What is the longest you have ever camped out in a tent? 5 days. Loved it.

100. Who was the last person to do something extra special for you? Colleen and Michelle made meals on the weekend to help us out. :)
Join in on the fun, won't you? Be sure to leave me a link!


And....EXHALE!

My shoulders are no longer up around my ears, I can relax now.
I had my follow-up appointment with the surgeon and I was happy to find out that she had all the results from my surgery. I didn't have to wait any longer.
My biopsy was clear!
There is no sign of cancer!
She did tell me that I tested positive for the hemmorrage disorder and that it was a smart move that we did the hysterectomy. As upsetting as it is, it was the right thing to do.
I can breathe now.
Wellness 2010 is in full effect!

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

A Wrong Assumption?

I have always assumed that when you told someone you've had a hysterectomy, that they would know what that means. I have assumed this because we learned it in Health Class in high school. It was the same for Cesaerean Section, Appendectomy and Colonoscopy. They were common procedures......in my mind at least.

I have discovered that Hysterectomy is not necessarily understood by many people I have spoken with lately. At first, I had found it amusing when people were surprised that I would no longer have a monthly visitor. Or that I could not have a baby! But as the comments kept coming - and they did A LOT! - I was starting to get annoyed. This of course can turn an already emotional situation worse for the person who has had the surgery.

I even had NURSES make insensitive comments to me. I am saying they are insensitive, because I would assume that they would know what a hysterectomy is. I am not a trained nurse so I can only assume.

Take scenario #1 - I had a pre-admit appointment and the nurse had to draw some blood, review the procedure being done and ask me some questions. "Are you currently pregnant?" this is a perfectly fine question because obviously they cannot do the surgery if I am pregnant. I answered "no". The next question baffled me......"Do you plan to be pregnant in the next 6 months?" Well gosh, let me think about that......ummmmm, how is that possible and where would I carry the baby??

Scenario #2 - after my surgery I was upset at the thought that I would never carry a baby inside me ever again. I was told by the nurse that I was lucky enough to still have my ovaries and that I could always have my eggs and Seans sperm implanted.........ummmmm, again, where the heck would I carry the baby??

Scenario #3 - I had to return to emergency after my surgery because of some complications. When we checked in, we gave the history of the surgery and the first question asked was "How old is your fetus?" Sean was ready to knock someone out.

Now I do want to say, this is not a slam to nurses. I think nurses do a fantastic job. I just unfortunately encountered a few that were probably having a bad day, possibly tired or quite frankly does not enjoy their job and couldn't give a crap what I was going thru.

I guess the point of my ramble is this......when someone has had a hysterectomy, the LAST thing you should talk to them about is babies and periods. Just don't. It won't end well.

Thats my ramble for today. Clearly needed to get this off my chest.

Thanks for listening ;)